If you have your eyes set on a popular girl, then you will have to work hard to impress her. Since she is popular, she has the benefit of being the “prize.” And since she is coveted you have to work harder to get her attention. But it is not an impossible task to get a popular girl to like you. All you need is a strategy that will work. Here are a few great ways of making a popular girl like you.
Ooze confidence
For her to take notice of you, you will have to be very confident. Why would she go out with a guy who is a wimp? So, work on your confidence and be absolutely self assured when you are around her.
Be the leader
You will fade in the background if you are not the leader. It is only leaders who get noticed and it is only leaders who get all the popular girls. Dunk the notion of being in the herd and following a pattern. Set your own methods and make your own notions and let people around you follow them. Make sure that the popular girl is around when all this action is happening.
Don’t care about your surroundings
Have an “I don’t care a damn” attitude surround you. Be open and playful around the girl you like and don’t conform to social norms if you want to say something.
Acknowledge her but that’s it!
You will also have to play some mind games here to get her attention. So when you see this girl, just acknowledge her and nothing more. Make her feel like yes she is popular but you are not crazy about her.
Don’t go overboard with the compliments
Be civil and polite with her and pay her a quirky compliment or two but don’t go overboard with the complimenting. Since she is popular she is used to being complimented. What she is not used to is being ignored. So, if you want her to get attracted to you, pay her a compliment and then ignore her. When you challenge her position it is then that you will get her attention.
Dress to kill
You will also have to look like a good package…one that is worth chasing if you want to attract a girl that you like. So look the part and dress to kill.
Don’t be a recluse
You might not be the most popular guy around but being a complete recluse is not going to help. Look like a fun guy who has friends and you will have a popular girl inching towards you.